Dear Nigerian women- Etcetera has something to say to you

When you heard the news that Toke Makinwa’s husband impregnated his girlfriend, you all took to social media to rain insults on Nigerian men. Why men cheat on women they love became a topic for all female radio presenters in the country. Aren’t you all tired of asking the same question over and over as if it is some perplexing unfathomable mystery? Your question is rhetorical, but since it keeps coming up again and again, let me provide some explanations to help you understand the reasons. I will simply tell it like it is, with no bull, tact, or political correctness. It’s just that oftentimes; women do not accept the explanations. But in fact, one can understand it through common sense. Sometimes a man would cheat on his wife or girlfriend because he doesn’t love her anymore; he is bored with her, or even possibly unhappy with their relationship.

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Ladies; 5 Types Of Men You Should Avoid If You Don’t Want To End Up Miserable (MUST READ)

1. He’s dashingly handsome but not very smart

Sometimes those good looks can be deceiving. Handsome doesn’t go very far when it comes to having to pay the rent, unless he lands the lead in a hit movie, but if he’s not too smart he won’t be able to learn the lines so don’t count on that. However, if you find a guy who is both handsome and smart, then grab him quick and consider yourself a lucky girl. But wait, how can you tell if he’s smart? Here are a few clues:

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IK Ogbonna's New Wife, Sonia Morales, Speaks About "Forced Marriage"

IK Ogbonna and his wife, Sonia Morales recently got married and both have a son together.

Just weeks after the official announcement of their marriage, the light-skinned beauty is now speaking to her fans about a forced marriage.

See more after the cut:

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Married Lady Dies in Custody of Her Secret Lover in Lagos State...

When a lady thinks she's too wise and goes ahead playing her man, she is just setting herself up for hard times and unimaginable crises. You think you are fooling your man, but you are actually fooling yourself.

As a woman, if you have challenges the BEST thing to do is seek help rather than be looking for escape routes. There are no cheap escape routes in the issues of life, especially if they are spiritual.

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Check The 3 Sexiest Words A Man Can Say To A Woman ( Must Read )

 

If you’re expecting “I Love You”, we’ve got some news for you!
By Bryan Reeves.
“I love you.” (nope)
“You look beautiful.” (nope)
“Let’s go shopping!” (depends how you say it, but still, no)
“How’s your mother?” (no, this will just make her suspicious of you)

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MUST READ - Where Have All The Good Women Gone??

 

 Women are changing the way they view relationships and have become more dominant over the years. Women are becoming more open about their sexual practices and are not afraid to be as adventurous as their male counterparts. Loyalty, is the most common issue that men are finding when looking for a female to settle down with.

Women are starting to flip the switch and playing the game the way men have been doing for years. Women will say from time to time that men are drawn to women who show more skin

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Read How To Make Your Relationships Work (MUST READ)

Every relationship will be tried by fights, battling, false impression, deceptions, misinterpretations et-cetera. You have to comprehend that squabble is not the end of your kinship. Squabble is in fact a testing and balancing out instrument to make a relationship Stronger, so at whatever point one happens, permit it to make your relationship and not to scratch it.

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Happy Father's Day To All The Fathers In The House...

As we celebrate Father's day let me tell you who a father is, a father is one that cares and lead other, he is not just a man with a child but one that knows what it is to love and show love to all.

Its Fathers Day folks! Here is a platform to express your innermost feelings for your Papa. Send your Fathers Day Message to us and let the world know how much you love and care for your dad. Share old memories and dreams about future. Says sorry for all the troubles you gave him as a kid or just go ahead and say I Love You Dad. The space is all yours!! 

The women seeking rich older men to pay their university fees?

It's been euphemistically referred to as "mutually beneficial, transactional dating" but is the growing world of "sugar daddy" relationships just a sanitised term for sex work?
Freya is 22 and wearing jogging bottoms and a tatty T-shirt. She expresses herself unaffectedly and confidently.

She decided to start sleeping with older men for money while she was at university. "I love sex," says Freya. "And you know, I'm pretty good at it. So getting a sugar daddy - or two - was a no-brainer really."

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Another inspiring 'God did it' story: When two Olabisi Onabanjo University graduates found love!!!

Story as told by Helen Events Blog

Last weekend, Tunde and Peju got married. We were all classmates at Olabisi Onabanjo University but the most amazing thing about these two is that all through our years in Uni, they never knew they would end up as a couple until 3yrs after. 

Sometimes we bother ourselves over somethings we want, things we want God to do in a hurry..we become impatient, we seek God's face for a while and then we stop believing in him. The truth is God has a perfect time for all the things that concerns us...

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Man 'paid fortuneteller nearly £500k for time machine and reincarnation portal' to meet lost love (Photo)

Under investigation: A New York fortune teller allegedly fleeced a man out of £470,000 (stock picture)
A fortuneteller allegedly fleeced a lovesick man out of nearly £500,000 for a time machine and a reincarnation portal - to meet a woman who had died.

The 32-year-old unidentified man went to see Priscilla Kelly Delmaro, 26, in August 2013 to find a woman he loved, who he had met in Arizona.

But the psychic claimed that evil spirits were keeping the woman, called Michelle, away, he said.

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SHOCKER? Half of women think about other people during sex

It is said majority of women think about other men during sex, especially when the man they are having sex with isn't impressive...According to anew survey by sex toy brand Lovehoney,almost half of women have admitted to thinking about another man while they were making love with their current partner.

The research found that 46 per cent of women and 42 per cent men have had secret thoughts about a third party during sex.And for many women, that fantasy figure is close to home with the majority picturing a close friend or colleague at work.

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Dear Readers, Please How Can My Friend Cope with A Chronic Unrepetant Cheating Husband

'Mumtobe' shared her story on Nairaland:

My friend has been married for a year now. Although during the courtship I warned her about her husband. That everybody knows him as a chronic flirt. They were both in different states. But she still went ahead. And now they are married and she has been miserable since the first day of the wedding.  

My eyes saw the unspeakable on their wedding day. In fact the husband is so immature and proud. No respect for her family. And he displayed it on the wedding day. Well I kept mute cos he didn't disappoint me in the character aspect as I heard they were already married and what God has joined together let no one put asunder. That was when my friend began to regret the marriage but it was late.   

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If You Know You Can't Keep to Your Marital Vow, Remain Single Please!!

It is very disheartening and amazing, yet trending on how many couples are cheating on each other after they have made a public vow to stick and be faithful to their partner in the presence of God and everyone present at the solemnization of marriage/wedding ceremony. 

Many people are no longer ashamed to cheat on their spouses, infact, to some it's like a thing to be proud of when breaking the marital vow. In the holy book i believe in, it is written therein that, it is better not to make a vow than to make it and not fulfill it.
While discussing about it with someone, he said maybe those involved in cheating on their partners aint aware that they're breaking any vow, which makes them not better than a betrayer. I think at this junction, we need to examine the vow made by the couple to each other on their wedding day and see if it's different from making a vow.......... 

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Oh Dear! See Strange And Hilarious Reasons Why Nigerian Couples Divorce

ADELANI MAKINDE, a 32 year old businessman filed for divorce just hours after his expensive wedding. ADELANI discovered that his bride, KEMI had been wearing what is known as a butt pad to augment the size of her rear.

ADELANI told an Ikeja high court that his wife’s yansh is as flat as an ironing board. “I discovered that on our wedding night. I prefer a woman whose rear is big.”

OLUWAKELE OGUNDELE divorced her husband because he often defecated in their cooking pots after getting drunk. She told Agege Customary Court (Lagos) that her husband, OLUWAFEMI gets drunk every weekend. According to her, she can no longer cope again with the 10 year marriage.

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A unique & spectacular wedding video from the air (PHOTO)

Wedding is a once in lifetime event. For this reason, people want to have record of the event. In the past, photographs adequately served the purpose of recording the event for posterity. In more recent times a video record has become the norm.

Technology is now available that makes wedding video recordings more interesting because it can now be done from an aerial perspective. Harlequin Aviation is offering amazing aerial video of the big day featuring the wedding party, the family and friends from a unique perspective – the air!

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End Of Romance? Paris bans lovelocks, to remove all existing ones

Sorry romantic lovers heading to Paris, the Love Lock Tradition is about to be wiped out. The city of Paris has decided that to end the tradition of tourists coming over and dumping bits of metal all over its bridges, starting from Monday, the padlocks will be removed from the Pont Des Arts & plexiglass panels will soon replace the grills. The Pont Des Arts has been the most popular bridge with up to 1 million locks thought to be attached to the railings. The City has however had enough.
According to the council in charge, the locks are causing ‘a lasting degradation of the heritage of Paris and also a risk to the safety of visitors.

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Ladies, The Smarter You Are, The More Likely You Are To Be Single - MUST READ

Interesting article not written by me!

It’s a tough world out there… full of awkward first dates, bad sex and limited chances at orgasms.

Women now associate the dating landscape with the same risks many face going into the arctic tundra.

It’s cold, uncomfortable and it’s more than likely that you’ll die before getting that fire lit.

After years of bad trips and valuable packing lessons, we go in a little more prepared each time. We’ve learned tips, tricks and lessons that could only be experienced firsthand, quickly learning the scams, the men who are just trying to swindle you and certain places we will just never go again.

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10 Things Your Man Wish You Knew (MUST READ)

Article not written by me!

Listen up ladies… I know you are keeping lots of secrets from men, and even though you think you’ve got men all figured out, just know that your man is hiding few things himself and no single day his tongue will slip to let them out like;

1. Don’t Do Lots of Makeup
Men love their wives the way they woke up in the morning without lots of makeups. It is only that he can’t say it out but inside he burns for your change. Just do a little of it without much exaggeration. Natural is sexier!

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3 Reasons Why You Need To Talk Dirty During Sex (Must Read)

Talking dirty inflames the brain & produces intense feelings of primal pleasure and desire.

What is it about simple words that give them the power to make us laugh, cry, and even simmer with desire?

Being the communicative creatures that we are, we’re hardwired to respond to verbal cues, and the ideas and emotions we verbally express, can have a significant impact on how our bodies react.

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